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{ Body By Vi- What’s New }

January 14, 2013 by Fotini Filed Under: body by vi, gaining energy, getting healthy, results, ViSalus, weight loss Leave a Comment

Considering a weight loss program? How about ViSalus, the Worlds fastest growing program!! If you’re wanting to lose weight, get healthy or gain energy I’d like you to watch this video on the latest of Body By Vi!

If you like what you see or want more information, please email me {at} fo*********@ao*.com or you can sign up now HERE!

 

Love Story Printable

January 14, 2013 by Fotini Filed Under: free printables, love, love story, printable, Valentine's decor, Valentine's printable, Valentines day 24 Comments

Yes, you can say I’m obsessed with printables, it’s okay, I admit it! I’ve created this perfect printable just in time for Valentines Day. But it’s perfect for anytime too, like on the nightstand in your master bedroom!

I shared it last week on Facebook! I’d love to have you join me on Facebook, if you don’t already! Click here!

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{ MC: Balancing Your Time & Attention }

January 12, 2013 by Fotini Filed Under: balancing your time, blog love, kids, mommy panel, The Mom Connection 6 Comments

I am part of an AWESOME mommy panel with Cassie from Two In Diapers and Julie from Naptime Review.
Each Saturday, we will bring you fresh new ideas and advice about motherhood.
If you enjoyed what you read, we encourage you to tweet about it!
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Coming on January 19th, we will discuss:
What is your favorite indoor activity when it’s too cold to play outside?
Now on to this week’s topic!
Balancing your time and attention with more than one child!
Here is what Mom Connection shared:
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Welcome! I’m Julie over at Naptime Review. I am a mom of two wild, crazy and beautiful girls. My oldest just turned 4 and my baby is 16 months old. This is how I balance my time and attention between my children:
When my first child came into my world she became my world. I put my career on hold and wanted nothing more than to be with her. She got all my time and attention. When Alice came, I was very worried about how her arrival would affect the oldest. I also worried about being able to give Alice everything I gave Averie. I tried very hard to make Averie feel special knowing that babies can be very demanding. I think I focused my attention more on Averie. I am trying to shift that attention and make it more equally balanced now that Alice is getting older.
When the oldest is at preschool or at a friends house, I give the baby FULL attention. Meaning, I have weekly play dates at Little Gym. Even if Averie’s schedule changes, I still keep our Little Gym time. I drop Averie off at Grandma’s and enjoy my time with Alice. When Averie isn’t around, I try to get on the floor and read stories and play with Alice. In fact, Averie had a play date last weekend, and instead of cleaning the house, I just played with Alice. It was fun! I knew my house could wait until tomorrow but when would be the next time for the baby to get some QT with Mommy!
With Averie, I try to schedule our quality time. I really have noticed that when Averie and I do something special without the baby, she really shines and enjoys that one-on-one time. Therefore, once a month I try to take Averie somewhere special and fun. We go on “Mommy dates.” So far we have enjoyed, Tea with Cinderella at the Magic House, lunch outings, tea parties with other friends, and just running errands alone. Those are the moments, I think are very special and memorable for both mommy and Averie.
So when the baby gets older, I plan on dating both my kids regularly. In fact, I am enlisting the help of my husband for this mission. We will each date and swap with children monthly. I think it is very important for Daddy’s, especially with girls to get that quality one-on-one time. I am sure my children will enjoy Home Depot and the Golf Galaxy right?
So my answer to balancing time and attention is to schedule one-on-one dates with your children!
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Hi! I’m Cassie from Two In Diapers, and I’m a mommy to three sweet babies, ages 4, 3, and 18 months.
This is how I balance my time and attention between my children:
Wow… this topic is very close and personal with my life! With my three babies spaced 19 months apart each in age and a hope for one or two more in the future, this is something that I have to be conscious of daily.
My answer is… there is no way to do it perfectly. There’s just not, no matter how hard you try. But I believe it’s possible to do it well, and that is my daily goal. I strive to give special time and attention to each child in a way that fits their own unique needs. Whether this means a daily post-nap snuggle with three-year-old Bentley, 10 minutes to read Emily a book while the boys play, grabbing just one child for a trip to the grocery store, or taking advantage of a neighborhood babysitter occasionally to pick Emily up from school and enjoy her bear hug with both arms and really listen to her chatter on the way home.
So I suppose my answer is… it’s different with each family and each child each day, but I think sneaking in those moments of undivided attention randomly throughout the day when they are needed is the key to making each child feel loved, special and unique. I heard/read somewhere that the sign of a good mom is when each of her children is absolutely sure that he or she is her favorite. I’m really not sure who I heard this from, but I think it’s adorable and definitely one of my goals – to make each child feel uniquely special to and loved by me.
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My name is Alexa from No Holding Back. I am the mom of Nayner Bug (male, 5), Jelly Bean, (female, 3) and Tiny (female, 1). This is how I balance my time and attention between my children:
When I found out I was pregnant with my second child, I was scared because of this very topic. I was afraid I would never be able to love a child as much as I loved the first one and that I’d never have any quality time with my children. Well I was definitely wrong on the first account – who knew one person could hold so much love in their heart??? But the second one requires constant awareness. Originally the word that came to mind was “effort” but I don’t want to use that word with relation to spending time with my kids. So awareness is a better word choice.

It is so easy to get caught up in everything going on around us, especially now with three kids. School schedules, appointments, dance lessons, playdates, and all of the other things taking up time in our lives with small children. Honestly, I am still working on the balancing act. Not only do I have three children to balance, I have my duties as CEO of the household, and my writing. And my spiritual life and my social life, which are also both very important to me. I do have some dedicated one on one time. I take the 3 year old with me to run errands on the weekends so that we have some girl time. Every night before bed I say prayers with each child individually and I read for about 20 minutes with the two older children. Usually separately so it is their own time with me. We have dinner as a family each night and the 5 year old tells us all about his adventures and his day. I’m sad to say at this point, that’s about where it stops. I am terrible at balancing in general! I am focusing on doing projects with the kids, but we usually do them as a group. But even though I’m not able to spend a large amount of individual one on one time with them, I do make sure to pay them each individual attention. We get into tickle fights, play hide and seek, dance, or I just snuggle with them and tell them I love them a million times a day. Black Dots page break divider

My name is Fotini! I blog over at Glamorous Affordable Life. I am the mom of (Isabella 20 months and Christian 6 years). This is how I balance my time and attention between my children:
For the most part, I would really like to think I share my time and attention evenly between my children, husband and home. But, it’s something I tend to get too comfortable with. It’s been a big adjustment for Christian having a little sister. He was the “baby” for five years before Isabella came along, so that is something we’re all still getting used to. He is an amazing big brother in so many ways but at times I can see he’s getting jealous of how I talk to her or how much time I still spend holding her and loving on her. It’s really important for me to give him the same attention I give her! He was my first baby and is growing into such a smart, loving little boy! I make it a part to spend one-on-one time with Christian while Isabella naps during the day (for 1-2 hours) and once Isabella is in bed each evening. We play games, watch movies and cuddle. Throughout the day, I try my best to get us involved in activities we can all enjoy so he can “enjoy” Isabella and love her more than resent her.
One Saturday, at least once a month, I have my husband watch Isabella so Christian and I can go out and do something of his choice. Sometimes it’s just going to Barnes and Noble to look at books and play, or go to the movies or out to lunch at his favorite restaurant! No matter what he chooses that day, it gives us the chance to live in the moment and have fun with each other!
Spending extra time with Isabella comes when Christian spends the night with family members. She’s really girly, so we play with my makeup, fingernail polish and she likes to dress up in my clothes! The kids playroom is upstairs, so we spend as much time up there as possible and she just runs the halls having a good time! By the end of the night, though, she’s asking for her brother!
How do you spend one-on-one time with each of your kids?
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My name is Kristen from The Mrs. & The Momma. I’m the momma of three girls (ages 7, 5, & 3) and a little boy (18 months). This is how I balance my time and attention between my children:
Ensuring that each of our four children gets the love, time, and attention they need and deserve has become almost a science in our household. On a logistic level, having my two older ones are in school allows for a better balance at home during the day, especially during nap time. One they’re home from school is when it gets tricky. One thing I try to do is get down on their level when they speak to me so that I am both eye to eye with them and they understand that I am listening to only them.
My husband and I make it a habit to discuss each one of our children’s needs on a weekly basis….and we then adjust our time depending on who might need more of our attention that week by doing various activities such as a daddy/daughter dates, quiet one-on-one reading, or simply treating them to something I normally don’t allow, such as putting on Momma’s make-up. 🙂
Making sure our children are feeling loved enough and heard enough is our biggest and most important job….and something I struggle with on a daily basis. I mean, not only do my older two notice if they’re not getting their fair share of my time, but they crave it. Attention is love to them. And children who don’t feel loved at these young ages are susceptible to all sort of issues later on in life that I sure wouldn’t want to be responsible for causing. As parents, it is our job to make sure each one of our children do not ever feel slighted in the least. Dividing time between multiple children takes effort and organization…but it’s critical to our children’s thriving and absolutely worth it!

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Your Turn:

How do you balance your time and attention between your children?
Leave us a comment; we love to read your tips and advice!
Need advice? Check out these previous Mom Connection topics:
Disciplining your Babies
Teaching your Children to Clean up
Getting your Preschooler Dressed
Balancing Blogging and Motherhood

 

{ Fab Pins of the Week }

January 11, 2013 by Fotini Filed Under: fab pins of the week, Pinterest, popular, pray more, worry less 5 Comments

It’s that time of the week again!! Here’s my most popular pins this week J
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1. Talk about glamorous! This room is to die for… I love the textures of gold, black and neutrals. Head over to the source to take a look at the rest of the breath-taking apartment, wow!
2. In love with this wood-planked wallpaper! So many different designs to choose from, making it easy for you to bring the vintage look into your home! I also saw this featured on HGTV the other day! 
3. Love this tutorial on how to create a personalized wood-carved sign in a few steps! Thinking this is a project the hubby would like to get into 😉
4. This printable says it all… It’s so easy to get caught up in the “what- ifs” and “why nots” of life, don’t forget to put your faith in Him.
I’d love to have you follow along with me on Pinterest, click here!!

Cute Valentines Banner

January 8, 2013 by Fotini Filed Under: banner, book page banner, crafting, diy, DIY crafts, Valentines, valentines banner

Are you looking for a cute, simple banner to make for Valentines Day? I’ve got just what you’re looking for!

Create this cute little banner in just a few simple steps… Here’s what you’ll need!

  • 4 book pages
  • 8 paper hearts
  • twine
  • glue gun, glue
  • scissors
I found these super cute flat paper cards at the Target dollar corner, you guessed it, for $1! Perfect for this banner! Start by cutting your book pages close to the wording on the sides, fold the page in half and cut into two pieces. With your heated glue gun, glue the paper hearts onto your book pages and let dry. Turn your pages over and place four glue dots on the top of the page and push your twine into place. Leave about two inches between each book page. Ta-da, now you have a super cute banner to display! After my Fall Banner and Christmas Banner, I felt my mantle looked so bare with nothing on it, so I adore this 🙂
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{ Aucocisco Naturals – Guest Feature! }

January 7, 2013 by Fotini Filed Under: aucocisco naturals, blog feature, guest feature, natural skin care 2 Comments

Aucocisco Naturals is an up and coming skin and hair care line
featuring botanical and ethically sourced ingredients. Located on the
coast of Maine, our products are inspired by sea salt and the wild
rosehips that grow around us, as well as ingredients and techniques
from the ayurvedic tradition. Aucocisco naturals products never
contain artificial or synthetic additives, colors, fragrances, or
preservatives and are cruelty-free. We believe that focusing on the
effectiveness and simplicity of natural ingredients allows everyone's
inherent beauty to shine through. Our products are created by hand in
small batches to ensure attention to quality and a personal touch.

Be sure to keep up with the latest by following!
www.aucocisconaturals.com
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twitter.com/aucociscomaine

{ New Year, New YOU! }

January 6, 2013 by Fotini Filed Under: body by vi, money back guarantee, new year resolution, ViSalus, weight loss 11 Comments

Alright ladies, every New Year we set our resolutions for the year.. Two of the most popular New Years resolutions are losing weight and getting healthy. Every year I say I’m going to lose weight, and it doesn’t happen. This year I’m determined to make a change! With that being said, I decided to join a weight loss program called ViSalus. It’s a 90-day program and even has a 90-day money back guarantee, so literally the only thing you have to lose is weight!

The latest statics show that ViSalus is now the #2 weight loss program out there, right under Weight Watchers! That’s big stuff!! I know people are skeptical, and I truly understand that, but the way I’m looking at it is, it’s only 90 days and if it gets me losing weight, healthier and gives me more energy, I’m in!! I’d love for you to join me on this challenge!

I will be blogging all my weight loss triumphs, failures and everything in between! I would love for you to follow along with me, whether it be by joining me in the challenge or cheering me on!

If you’re interested in more information on ViSalus, you can click here to be directed to my site, or visit http://fotiniroman.bodybyvi.com

Best of luck to you and check back often to follow along with me through my journey!!

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{ MC: Setting Goals with Children }

January 5, 2013 by Fotini Filed Under: blog love, kids, MC, mommy panel, setting goals with children, The Mom Connection 2 Comments

I am part of an AWESOME mommy panel with Cassie from Two In Diapers and Julie from The Naptime Review.
Each Saturday, we will bring you fresh new ideas and advice about motherhood.
If you enjoy what you read, we encourage you to tweet about it!
Tweet
Coming on January 12th, we will discuss:
Balancing your time and attention with more than one child!
Now on to this week’s topic!
When and how did you begin setting goals with your children?
Here is what Mom Connection shared:
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Welcome! I’m Julie over at Naptime Review. I am a mom of 2 wild, crazy and beautiful girls. My oldest just turned 4 and my baby is 16 months old. This is how I handle setting goals with my children:
I think it is important to set goals for everything in life. I am a goal setter and I hope to install that quality with my children. In fact, each year my husband and I write out our new year’s resolutions in the form of a letter and exchange them at midnight. Click here if you’d like to learn more about our New Year’s tradition.
As for my children, they are still young. However, last year, we got this time capsule from BabbaBox. If you haven’t heard of this monthly preschool activity box, I highly recommend it. In the box came a time capsule along with books, activities, and an App for our iPad. We wrote out our goals and buried the time capsule in our backyard. We had so much fun digging it up this year and reflecting on our goals. It was great to see how our handwriting changed as well as our favorite foods. My 4 year old’s resolution was to be a better eater. Meaning, not to play with her food or to paint the table, the dog, and her face with food when she ate. I am happy to report we have successful mastered that goal. However, I think the baby is following in “Big Sister’s” footsteps as she loves to pour bowls of food on top of her head. Can’t wait to start working on goals with that one!
Averie’s goals for 2013, are learning to ride our new bike that Santa delivered and learning to master writing our name. We set the goal and then discussed how we would achieve the goal. We came up with doing custom tracer pages from Kidzone. I customized a handful of name sheets and each day at breakfast my daughter will practice her name while I make breakfast. Not only does it serve as a distraction while Mommy gets breakfast on the table, but it also helps Averie master the task of writing her name.
When your children are small setting goals consists a lot of modeling and thinking aloud so children can see the whole goal setting process. I am hoping that by modeling and helping my children set and achieve goals they will be better equipped in the future and will one day achieve their own goals.
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Hi! I’m Cassie from Two In Diapers, and I’m a mommy to three sweet babies, ages 4, 3, and 18 months.This is how handle setting goals with my children:
Wow, when I first sat down to write my answer to this question, I had nothing. I immediately beat myself up over yet another thing I had failed to start doing with my children.
But once I got to thinking about it, I realized that I set age-appropriate goals with my children all the time! This is because I feel that setting goals and simply planning go hand in hand all the time, especially at the ages that my littles are. My daughter brings home a homework folder from pre-K each month. It contains just a couple of papers worth of preschool-age projects for her to count, cut, color, or trace, and is due by the end of the month in order for her to be allowed to choose something from the treasure box. We always decide which day we will turn in her folder, and then ration out the homework accordingly. I do this mainly to plan ahead so that we don’t forget it, but at the same time I am teaching my daughter to set and achieve goals in an organized and attainable manner.
I also give my littles small tasks constantly, especially when we are trying to get out the door in the morning. I might instruct Bentley to gather up everyone’s shoes, Emily to clear the dishes off the table, and little Grayson to go find his “kook” (coat). When each child completes their task, they come back to me for a “great job, sweetheart!” {which always rewards me with a gigantic and heart-stopping smile} and are sent out on the next “task”… all of which are achieving smaller goals to work towards our family goal of leaving the house successfully on yet another morning.
These may seem like somewhat of a stretch to some of you {especially considering some of the amazing answers I’m seeing from my fellow panel moms!}, but I feel that these are small tasks that my children can achieve, which will help build their confidence and independence. Isn’t that what goals are for anyway?
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My name is Alexa from No Holding Back. I am the mom of Nayner Bug (male, 5), Jelly Bean, (female, 3) and Tiny (female, 1). This is how I handle setting goals with my children:

Goals for my little ones tend to focus on developing routines and habits that make our life function a little more smoothly. To do this, I use checklists, rewards charts, repetition, and a little bit of good ole fashioned bribery! (ahem, I mean positive reinforcement!) Even at the ages of 5 and 3 there are so many things that they can accomplish. I set goals for the kids mostly to help them develop the habits I would like to see them carry through life. (Picking up after themselves, helping with chores around the house, reading, even down to making it through the day without hitting or fighting). Even though I stay at home with the children, I do not want them to get into the habit of me doing everything for them. So we instituted some checklists to start developing habits early on. There are some really great free checklists out there that are perfect for small children because they are picture charts and certainly age appropriate with attainable goals/responsibilities. These are two of my favorite, that you will literally find printed out and taped to the kids walls: Routine Printables (after school, bedtime, etc) at Get Snazzy and The Family Chore Charts which can be downloaded free at Power of Moms.

My children seem to thrive on recognition and feeling like they are appreciated, so I love chore charts such as the second one above. The kids can see their weekly accomplishments and know exactly what has to be done to be rewarded for meeting their goals.

In order to set the goals with the kids and make sure they understood, we had a little “meeting” and I explained the charts and expectations, the reward system, and what everything meant. Then, over the course of the next few days, I walked them through it. There was some trial and error followed by adjustments. Some things worked, some didn’t. It’s a goal for my son to make his bed every day, but we found we never had enough time to do it before school, so he does it before he plays with his friends after school. I have found that as long as the goals are attainable and I am consistent in my expectations, the kids do a great job at following through! They work best with very specific directions. They are only 3 and 5, so they do need plenty of reminders, but overall they are doing great with their tasks and goals! Black Dots page break divider

My name is Fotini! I blog over at Glamorous Affordable Life. I am the mom of (Isabella 19 months and Christian 6 years). This is how I handle setting goals with my children:
I think setting goals with your kids is really important because it teaches them you have to work for the things you want. I started setting goals with my son when I started potty training around two and a half years old. I made a potty chart and each time he went potty in the toilet, he got a star. Once he reached a certain amount of stars (whether it be within a day or a week) he was rewarded. Some rewards would include letting him pick out a surprise from the store, a new book, choosing dinner or dessert that evening or going to the movies! Some of his favorite things that he wanted to earn! Now that my son is six, he is beginning to understand more and more setting goals for yourself allows you to grow! Christian’s goal for 2013 is to get really good and baseball and score a home run! I have no doubt that if he works at it, he will have no problem accomplishing that goal!
I haven’t started setting goals with my daughter yet; I think she’s still too young. At what age do you start with your children?
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My name is Kristen from The Mrs. & The Momma. I’m the momma of three girls (ages 7, 5, & 3) and a little boy (18 months). This is how I handle setting goals with my children:
There are two things I believe are critical to goal setting with children….
1. Making it an attainable, understandable, and realistic goal.
2. Writing it down and make it visibly available for them to see each day.
For the first one, we don’t want to set our kids up for failure…no one does, right? A child’s goal should be something they can actually accomplish…and in a fairly short time period, as most kids don’t have a grasp of time to plan a whole year away. For example, yesterday we opened goals my two oldest made in 2011, that they’d written down and sealed in envelopes. One of the goals was to be able to do a cartwheel. This was both realistic and something that she was reminded of almost everyday to work on. It was realistic and she understood exactly what that goal entailed.
For the writing it down part, I’m a firm believer in that for anyone, no matter their age…but to help drive it home a bit more…we have our children write it themselves or draw a picture of it to display on the fridge. I think doing this cultivates ownership in their goal. They usually feel proud of themselves for making and putting to paper this “big responsibility” of setting a goal like Momma and Daddy do.
Goal setting is a wonderful thing we enjoy teaching our children at an early age. If if the goal isn’t achieved or realized, I’m satisfied to teach them the importance of wanting to better ourselves each year, in an effort to hopefully bring up a shining generation.

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Your Turn:
When and how do you begin setting goals with your children?
What works for you?
Leave us a comment; we love to read your tips and advice!
Need advice? Check out these previous Mom Connection topics:
Disciplining your Babies
Teaching your Children to Clean up
Getting your Preschooler Dressed
Balancing Blogging and Motherhood

{ Fab Pins of the Week }

January 4, 2013 by Fotini Filed Under: baby shower ideas, fab pins of the week, free printable, kids play room, Pinterest, sangria, sparkling white peach sangria 5 Comments

Here’s my most popular pins this week!
                                 1. Honeybee Vintage                2. theKitchn
                                 3. the pro-tog’s blog                  4.Pinterest– source unknown
1. Absolutely love the idea of this idea of displaying your kids masterpieces in the play room! This technique makes it super simple to change the pictures at any time! Head over and see what she uses for this cute display!!
2. This sounds A- Mazing… Sparkling white peach sangria! This is a must try for this summer! You won’t believe just how simple the recipe is, go look!
3. What a truly beautiful quote! It’s a great reminder to be gracious for what you have! I’m sure you can find somewhere in your home for this pretty little printable!
4. Love this idea for a baby shower. DIY onesie station. How fun for your guests to create a onesie for your little one- to be! 
Are you following me on Pinterest yet? I love for you to here!!

{ Hump Day Blog Hop }

January 2, 2013 by Fotini Filed Under: Uncategorized 11 Comments

Happy Hump Day!!

…and rest assured, because its all down hill from here. In a good way! Welcome Back to a Mid Week Link up where you can link up everything you got, including your giveaways. Make sure they go on the right linkies below.

THE HOP HAS CHANGED! EVERYONE WHO LINKS UP WILL HAVE A CHANCE TO CO-HOST!

How does it work? Every time you link up your button below, you have a chance to be drawn as a co-host the following week. As long as you did not co-host the two previous weeks, you may co-host again and again if you like. Linking your button up on the first linky below means that you agree to host the blog hop on your blog the following week if you are drawn.  We have decided to make this change because we feel that it will be more successful in the long run and reach a wider audience for everyone!

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1. Follow your hosts  Mommy Only Has Two Hands, Rambling Mama , Glamorous Bride

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